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Being in The Friend Zone - There Comes a Time When You Need to Be Real With Yourself

por Camille Maclanachan (2020-03-19)

It's kind of a weird dichotomy of feelings that you have when you are in the friend zone with a woman you actually want to be more than friends with. That's because it can feel really comfortable to get to spend time with her, to get to share secrets with her, and to feel like she really cares about you and likes you. It can also feel really uncomfortable when you are forced to face the fact that you like her as more than just a friend, but she probably doesn't feel the same way about you. That weird dichotomy seems to be what keeps guys locked in the friend zone for a long time, but there does come a time when what you ouugh to do is just be real with yourself and admit that either you are going to be more than her friend or you are going to have to forget about that every being a reality.


I knew a guy who was really good with women and he told me something that kind of changed my entire approach and 온라인카지노 it has stuck with me and proved to be very useful over the years. What he said was - Great women are everywhere and if you can't date the one that you want, there is always another who will come along and make you forget about that woman. It might sound cold to say something like that, but there is a lot of truth in it. There ARE great women all around you. There are women who are beautiful, women who are intelligent all around you all of the time. So, if you are stuck on one woman that you are in the friend zone with, keep that in mind. A lot of guys will stay in the friend zone because they don't realize that as great as the woman they like might be, there are plenty more that are just as great out there.


Another reality that you have to deal with is the fact that some things will just never change. I've actually known guys who were in the friend zone with a woman for 5 years or more. All that time they spent pining away for that one woman that they couldn't have, they could have spent some of that time finding someone that they could be with. You don't want to wake up one day and realize that you have wasted years and years with a woman you are never going to date. That's really when you need to be real with yourself and admit that it will probably never happen and that it is time to move on.

There are ways to turn a female friend into a girlfriend if you know what you are doing. However, you may also want to look for signs she likes you first before you do anything.